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2020.08.23 00:50 blizzard36 New players, Contract 2: "How hard can it be?" Part 2

I know some of you were following the story intently, so I'm sorry for the long delay in wrapping this up. Summer vacations and a couple instances of renewed lockdown prevented us from finishing this campaign until recently.
For those unfamiliar with the intro campaign I'm recapping, or wanting a refresher, Parts 1-3 can be found linked below. A recap may especially be needed since we had to break in the middle of a fight last time
https://www.reddit.com/battletech/comments/gsoy5u/first_contract_for_a_new_group_i_think_its_going/
https://www.reddit.com/battletech/comments/gwo4c7/first_contract_for_a_new_group_finishing_the_fight/
https://www.reddit.com/battletech/comments/hccoanew_players_contract_2_how_hard_can_it_be_part_1/
I had expected the players to just make a run for the exit zone, they weren’t necessarily going to get paid for this fight because it wasn’t guaranteed this was a pirate attack. (It’s highly unlikely that pirates would be able to get such hidden units in place.) Some did, at least at the speed they were capable of. The Victor was definitely making its way that way, but it had to deal with the heavy units so it seemed the most likely to be lost while everyone else dealt with the infantry. But since two mechs ended up shut down for heat thanks to Inferno baths, the Locust and Hermes, the rest of the unit tried to stay together and defend them. In the process they learned just how nasty infantry can be in a city fight, the anti-mech squad that had swarmed the Griffin actually stuck with it until it jumped into a depth 2 lake. This and the couple other direct hits also showed just how little staying power infantry has once a mech focuses on them.
The unit eventually has to give up and abandon the shut down mechs as the Demolisher has separated from the fight with the Victor and come up to play with the units Lights and Mediums. It is able to cripple the unit’s Enforcer while the faster mechs finally scatter for the exit and outrun the pursuit. The Victor is able to disable the Manticore, and heads to the exit with the enemy Centurion chasing it. That Centurion is dropped by the combined fire of the remaining mechs.
At this point the Locust and Hermes pilots have been captured, though the Locust pilot put up a fight and is currently unconscious and bleeding from the resulting wounds. The Enforcer pilot, knowing he’s next in line for capture but also knowing the enemy mech just got taken out of the fight signals instead for a cease-fire and withdraw. There’s a few tense moments as both sides consider it, the Demolisher knows the Victor is barely standing (at this point it is 8 internal points away from losing the Left Torso and Left arm and both legs) and is pretty sure it can take the rest in time, the Victor pilot in turn is confident they can do enough to the Demolisher in the round or two they have to let the rest outflank and combo it down. In the end though the lack of any guaranteed pay, and meager salvage, convinces the unit that accepting the terms is the best option. Unknown to them the attackers have accomplished their primary goals already, and with a repairable Centurion and Manticore to be salvaged their only permanent loss is 2 platoons of infantry. They are quite willing to accept as well. Everyone gathers their fallen equipment, the two captured pilots are left in place to be picked up (the one with some new scars and bandages), and everyone goes their own way.
The units direct employer is willing to consider this a new pirate attack and so the unit receives their combat pay. Unfortunately, having lost the gyro on the Enforcer and Hermes along with the extensive repairs of more mundane parts they are losing about half a million c-bills on the engagement. And then the real drama begins.
A mid-level local lord publicly complains that the merc unit is getting paid for this engagement. Apparently, he has info that shows this was really an internal Capellan squabble (the unit’s owneCO and XO are from a very minor Capellan family) that has now dragged their fair city into the crossfire. The unit shouldn’t be getting paid, they should be charged for all the damages caused by the fight! The unit knows this is BS, their family is too small to be a bother to anyone, the only faction they may have any bad relations with right now is the pirates they have been fighting for most of the last year. It doesn’t take them long to figure out that this noble is having a fight with the planetary ruler and doesn’t like that mercenaries were hired for the garrison instead of bringing in replacement house troops. (The normal garrison was sent to participate in GALAHAD ’26.) As he says, “Just because the last mercenary unit to handle this contract was Wolf’s Dragoons doesn’t mean our Lord is going to have the joy of finding another diamond unit of such calibre again! His obsession with finding the next famous mercenary company puts our world at risk!” Suddenly the combat payout is frozen so the unit has to spend what had been the remaining profit from the previous combats to get back to full strength. They have enough in the bank to pay everyone to the end of the contract and get home, but not much else.
How to deal with this noble, who clearly laid the trap and made the unit a piece in an ongoing fight with the planetary lord, becomes the next big hurdle for the unit. The noble has successfully turned popular support to their view, but that should presumably be canceled if evidence could be found that he manufactured the whole thing. The wannabe DEST character is ALL about the idea of sneaking into the noble’s home, searching for evidence, and then presenting it to the media. In the end the CO decides to leave it with the commander they report too and the planetary lord to handle. It might take longer to get done and be less dramatic, but unless there is another attack the unit won’t risk any further injury.
March 3026:
Mid-Terms go well. The FedSun authorities investigation on the attack continues, but no results yet.
April 3026:
Papers and class Finals are done at the academy. All the PC and notable NPCs who taught do well enough to be registered as Adjunct Professors in the Federated Suns collegiate system, except the Locust pilot. Since she had failed badly in the first semester, and then spent half of the second semester recovering from 5 gunshots, she didn’t complete the required work.
The planetary lord and head of the academy are able to force through the original intended combat pay for the ambush the unit sustained, declaring that with the history of pirate attacks in the last year that this was probably just a different group. The power squabble is obviously not over yet, but hopefully the unit isn’t stuck in it any more. Assuming of course that their read of the situation is correct, and that it wasn’t an attempt to take out the unit in a deniable way so the dropship and any salvage could be added to Davion inventory…
Two Davion house lances arrive to take over the garrison, 1 Medium and one Heavy. This force is about equal to the units, though slightly heavier. If the militia sides with them as would be expected, the unit would be facing a very rough situation. Some letters are discreetly filed with the local ComStar branch just in case.
May 3026:
The unit is approached by a man in Davion uniform wearing a Commando beret who has landed in a Fortress class dropship, he introduces himself as Force Commander McCullough. He explains, politely but clearly an order, that the unit will have to leave its dropship behind along with the Transits and infantry platoon. The units mechs will load into the Fortress, rendezvous with a Fury and Achilles in orbit, and proceed to Lackland. The unit is a little concerned about this arrangement, splitting the unit and leaving both groups surrounded by house forces shortly after possibly being betrayed by house troops doesn’t seem like a good idea. They are also surprised by the amount of force that Davion has brought.
Asking about that force answers the other concerns as well. This is Lackland’s spawning season, 80% of its economic output is in the next 2 months. If pirates are going to come, now is when they would. Add the rumors of a Star League facility to be found to, and FedSun command assumes there definitely will be an attack. So they have brought enough forces to defend against such an attack and cover the salvage if a facility is found. Splitting up the unit’s forces as they are will hopefully convince any observers that the full unit is still on Filtvet. It turns out they were already planning to send the unit to Lackland for this period anyway, which is why it was so easy to convince command to allow them to use an expedition here for the end of year cadet campaign.
While chatting with Force Commander McCullough it turns out that the cadet excursion is actually why he personally is here. It’s very rare that mechwarrriors train for extensive underwater operations, much less get experience of the level they are going to in this expedition. So while he’s expecting 2 cadets to die in the process and 2 more to no longer be combat worthy after it, he’s hoping that he will find some potential new recruits among the ones who adapt and endure the best. Perhaps the AFFS can get an underwater strike team out of this insane endeavor this crazy mercenary unit has proposed.
Though in all honesty the lead Transit pilot, who had been tasked with planning the operation, had actually done a good job. They had arranged for a battalion’s worth of Neptune submarines to be included in the ground compliment that the AFFS forces had brought, to make searching for this purported underwater base much easier than slogging around in mechs. Plus, having heard the stories of the terrors lurking in Lackland’s ocean depths, perhaps the armor afforded on a 100 ton submarine would be needed. The Neptunes had also been outfitted with 6 deep dive hardsuits, so that 6 of the 7 man crew could go out and explore anything interesting found while the 7th kept station in the sub. The AFFS had devoted the rest of their conventional force space to AA units. Since there was little land to defend on the planet, the enemy needed to be defeated before they made landfall. This is also why they had an Achilles in orbit to act as a dropship interceptor. Ideally anyone trying to steal the planet’s haul, be it the normal sea bounty or possible Lostech, wouldn’t even make planetfall. That would leave a large chunk of the unit free to lead the search.
After making planet fall and setting up defenses the unit had to decide who would stay up on land fulfilling the primary role, and who would search the depths for this rumored SLDF base. Deciding how to split the mechs turned out to be easy, since the ammunition focused mechs would be useless under water. As it turned out, only the unit’s light mechs were really suitable for underwater operations, along with the training company. Sure they would have MGs not working, but that’s not much of a loss. Since the unit had a lance worth of backup mechwarriors at this point this let the PCs go searching while everyone else did normal garrison patrols. (Though the “reformed” pirates got the least dangerous mechs and were watched closely in this first operation for them.) Force Commander McCullough turned out to be correct, 2 of the trainees had fatal breaches from falls trying to climb down the underwater mountain sides.
For the first 3 weeks of the garrison period the unit and other AFFS searchers found nothing in the areas that were being scanned, and all they had to show for it was a couple fights with kraken. (At least the Neptune submarines were proving to be as effective against them as hoped.) This was not a surprise to the locals, who were amused at the offworlders spending all this time and effort to look for something that clearly wasn’t here. If it was anywhere within a few kilometers of the surface surely someone would have found it, even if by accident, over the generations since the collapse of the Star League. Clearly this meant the unit needed to go deeper. Down into Kraken territory.
The last week of the planned contract period was spent doing just that, searches didn’t even start until they were 4 kilometers down. On day 4 the new search pattern the PCs spotted something. Changing up the search pattern clearly helped, but changing out crew may have been important as well. Originally all 5 PCs had gotten together on one sub, with an AFFS captain, chief engineer, and helmsman. But after asking about the skillsets of the pirates they had allowed to join, and it turned out that the most experienced once had some skill with sensors as well. So they swapped him out with the CO taking over as “Captain” of the submarine. (Really they let the engineer or helmsman override as needed.)
It's hard to be sure what the critical change was, diving deeper than ever before, changing to a more skilled character on the scanners (who got played by a guest player this session), or just plain better luck… but the PCs finally got a hit in their search! They got return signals of two clearly metal and man-made structures in the wall of a trench. Obviously the team turned the sub towards the signals and headed in to investigate.
The sub promptly jerked to a halt, with a slithering sound along the hull and whine of machinery from the propshaft. The engineer was certain that the propeller had gotten mired by something, so an exterior excursion was ordered. While not the intended use of the hardsuits, the value of bringing them along was again proved. None of the team had actually used the hardsuits yet, and none had the proper training for them… but they’re MechWariors! How hard could it be?
The two characters with the best swimming skill were chosen, since at least it had to deal with operating under water. (Two other characters actually had better default skills, but this kind of crap is what happens when you fail to do the proper planning!) Uneasy, clumsy, and poorly coordinated the two manage to make their way along the hull to the propeller safely and discover that the sub has gotten caught in strands of seaweed or kelp. They are growing in a suspiciously netlike pattern. That’s something to figure out later though, they need to pry, clip, and saw the current strands loose and get the sub moving again.
Fate would not let this straightforward, if time consuming, problem be the only thing the team had to deal with however. Sensors noticed another monster of the deep coming towards the sub. It probably heard the crash and squealing, and figures its wounded prey. Of course, in its current condition, the Neptune Submarine IS wounded prey.
Until now these “kraken” hadn’t been a serious threat, they were able to be detected at range and killed or driven off with the large laser or long range torpedoes. The short range torpedoes had only rarely been used and actual damage from the creatures, who were limited to melee damage, had been even rarer. The one major weakness of the Neptune submarine though was that all of its weapons faced forward. This hadn’t been much of a problem with freedom to maneuver, but now they were stuck in place and this creature was coming in from their rear side.
Most entertainingly the crew aboard ship failed to reach the divers to warn them about what was coming, so their first notice of any threat was when their kelp cutting was interrupted by a giant tentacled sea monster whooshing in and wrapping up the back section of the submarine. The section they were cutting seaweed off of. The two characters had completely opposite but understandable reactions, one going stone cold calm in the face of certain doom and the other proceeding to laugh, cry, and blubber as they desperately attempted to find some way out of the situation. As it turned out this was pretty easy, the creature wasn’t interested in such small bits when it had a large prize to work on and their cutting tools were only an irritant to it. So after the second diver regained control of themselves with the realization they weren’t in any direct threat from the kraken the two returned to cutting free the submarine while those aboard hoped they could accomplish this before the hull was punctured under the extra stress.
The divers did manage to cut the submarine loose before the kraken broke through the hull, but this just led to 2 more problems. The submarine had to throttle up to get clear of the kelp to try shake the kraken loose, but this meant leaving the two divers behind for now. So long as it’s only a short trip, that meant that the divers would be able to act as homing beacons back to the location in case the navigation system failed. But if the submarine weren’t able to return… well, the divers would have to chose between seeing if they had enough power and air to make the surface under their own power or hope they could break into the installation and hope there was air inside. The submarine meanwhile had the immediate problem that the kraken still hadn’t shaken off, was continuing to do slow but sure damage to the hull, and had locked the controls partially… while they were at speed in underwater canyons.
It was a close thing, just over a minute at their best speed with the drag of a kraken on the hull and they still hadn’t shaken it off even with some extra maneuvers thrown in to try shake it off. Sensors showed a trench wall coming up (in 3 rounds) that they would not be able to avoid with their controls partially blocked by the kraken, and even if they did the creature had slowly but surely scraped off 2/3 of the rear armor and almost half of the sides so soon it would get to the tasty juicy bits inside. With that extra motivation Edge points got spent and the Kraken was finally shaken off. The Neptune quickly gained some distance, turned around to bring the weapons to bear, and dispatched the creature.
The two divers had meanwhile had debated going past the kelp net to check the signals out themselves, giving in to despair that the submarine has been destroyed and slowly making their way to the surface, or hanging out here and hoping everything had worked out fine. They ended up with option 3, mostly because they got distracted checking out the kelp net. Yeah… that definitely was growing exactly like a net. And who had heard of kelp being this far down anyway?, There’s no sunlight, so how was it even growing?! Genetic engineering was immediately suspected, something to check out later. Shortly after they came to that conclusion the submarine announced its return, and one of the divers heard a whirring noise go past them and were rocked by a small wake. Both player and character failed to recognize it as a torpedo going past them, and didn’t bother contacting the submarine that anything was possibly amiss.
So it came as a shock to the characters still on the Neptune when they were hit hard by a Star League era torpedo (I ran it as an Arrow IV, but underwater). This blew through the remaining rear hull armor, flooding the engineering section. With a heroic effort the Chief Engineer managed to release the submarine rescue buoy before being crushed under tons of inrushing water. The rest of the crew got to experience some very tense seconds as everything went dark and silent, except for the brief roar of water slamming against the bulkhead door. There were some looks at the door, as if expecting it to spring a leak. Which it did after the second torpedo hit and blew through the remaining internals.
Now the crew was in a mad dash to save their lives! The PCs uniformly decided to try put on the remaining hardsuits, while the helmsman and reforming pirate sensor operator headed for the life pod. The helmsman decided that launching the life pod from below its intended depth rating was less of a risk than trying to climb into an armored suit while fighting the tide of water rushing in and the pirate followed the person actually trained for this sort of thing. It turned out to be a good decision, while it sprung a leak and survived a sideswipe from a curious kraken the life pod made it to the surface and those two were rescued rather quickly.
The PCs didn’t enjoy nearly as easy a ride. The wannabee DEST showed their strength and dexterity by quickly donning the suit and fighting against the tide with little problem, launching out to join the two previous divers. The Enforcer pilot made it into the legs before being toppled over by the current, and the Dervish pilot was immediately swept off their feet, smashed into a console, lost consciousness, and was wedged under the console by the tide.
With no option but to leave his fallen companion to their fate the Enforcer pilot struggled to keep putting on the suit. This took several turns, with the life support system of the suit fighting (and failing) to pump out the water as fast as it was coming in through the unsealed sections, he was eventually able to get it sealed well enough that the life support system was winning the air vs water fight and tried to launch. But by now the damaged sub was sinking fast and had sunk far enough that sections were starting to collapse in, including bending the hardsuit exit tube. After a couple more rounds of struggle he was able to force an exit through some of the breached hull and just barely break free of the wreckage. Unfortunately, that long struggle with the sinking submarine had taken the suit well below the areas it was really intended to operate in, and one of the seals popped. The water jetting in cut the Enforcer pilot’s arm and they lost consciousness from the injury shock. They drifted into the deep blue to rejoin the Dervish pilot.
The three remaining PCs, the Stinger and Locust pilot who had gone out as divers first and now the Victor pilot, were back to the original debate that the first two had been having. Just now it was down to 2 options, slowly work their way to the surface, or try get inside the facility. The active anti-ship defense pretty well confirmed the facility was there. After surprisingly little debate, they decided to try get into the facility. They were already here and not sure they could make it the 4 km to the surface on their own, but if they disabled those defenses the search teams that would be summoned by the rescue beacon would be able to get them easily.
It didn’t take long to learn the purpose of the second structure they had discovered, it fired swarms of smaller scale torpedoes. Probably intended to take out any attempts at using sapper teams to disable the larger anti-vessel weapons. Something very much like what the team was trying to do right now. The first volley was fired at the Victor pilot, who managed to dodge out of the way. The second volley targeted the Locust pilot, who did not get out of the way. The pilot took damage and the suit was punctured, flooding the suit. Amazing everyone the Locust pilot somehow stayed conscious through the shock of the injury and cold salty water, and held their breath through it all as well. This gave new urgency to the plan to break into the facility, and now prayers that they would also find a section that still had atmosphere. The Victor pilot went ahead to be a decoy, since they were clearly the best at piloting these suits and had already proven they could dodge the incoming shots, while the Stinger pilot helped propel the Locust pilot along and tried to identify a hatch.
The Victor pilot was good, but not good enough. After 3 rounds they finally got caught and burst in a small ball of fire. The Stinger pilot almost immediately went down next. At this point the Locust pilot, with an already damaged suit and having lost all friends, didn’t even wait for the incoming torpedoes to hit. She opened wide and embraced oblivion.

Despite a TPK of the PCs, the unit as a whole did quite well on the contract. The presence of the SLDF facility was confirmed (the sensor operator and helmsman survived to give the info and location) so the unit got its finder’s fee. The survivors then received an urgent order to return to Filtvet, someone had broken in to the Davion unit’s barracks in the city, killed the guards and the pilots, and stole the 2 lances of mechs. AFFS suddenly had an urgent need for the unit to stay past their contracted end date by 3 months while they brough in replacements. The unit was able to accomplish the extension by using the former pirates as spare pilots along with their existing spare and surviving pilots to still field their full 2 lances, and giving the unit a nice emergency extension bonus. Investigation showed they had used an insulated mech repair tool to short out the security system and gain entry. This was the tool the Locust pilot had sold black market, but since most of the unit had been off planet for the month investigation didn’t turn towards them. Instead fingers pointed quickly to the local lord who had so obviously been involved in the previous dastardly attack. Protestations of their innocence were ignored, since they had been so obviously involved before. (Or maybe just because the planetary lord was unwilling to pass up this good an opportunity to get rid of the thorn.) While the unit will have to go mech shopping along with some recruiting, only the Dervish pilot didn’t have an heir to pass their mech to, they have the finances to buy 3-4 medium mechs now.

We are moving on to a new game now, that is our general rule with a TPK, but the Hounds of Ill Omen as a unit live on for the next time we cycle back around to the game. I was pleasantly surprised that everyone enjoyed BattleTech as much as they did, so I think this will become our new "palette cleanse" game between major campaigns. We recently wrapped up a Weird Wars campaign that had been serving that purpose, and BattleTech is a great option for that role. Do a couple contracts, maybe with an interconnected storyline (the unit never discovered the covert DEST group coordinating the pirate strikes to undermine the Filtvet region to progress to the intended part 3), and then move on to a more traditional RPG campaign.
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If my browser crashes again before i finish this thread or if i cant remember my fake email address i will post an imgur post with my new account with the photo code or whatever its called in the URL containing the string vz5Y
Edit: also no, I dont have a big dick (or at least I dont think it is, pretty sure girls lie about that shit) and i had to send nude body shots (non-lewd for lack of a better term) and honest stats at their request. I was the only person that replied to them that they weren’t either immediately offput by (due to others bering overly lewd), or they werent attracted to.
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2020.07.29 07:35 Successful_Economy_2 Blackmailed for my nudes

I feel like I'm going to throw up...
So since quarantine started I have felt more and more lonely. I downloaded tinder and other apps eventually. Tonight I got an adult friend finder account. This is the lowest I've ever dropped. A girl messaged me, asking me to video chat her. We were in the chat both naked. I didn't realize, but she was recording it. She then ended the chat, and said she was going to send it to all of my Facebook friends... She sent a pic to me of her about to send it to my mom. Then asked for $500! I obviously am already flustered and an idiot. So I did it! I gave them $500, but then they said "it didn't go through"... So I sent another $500 knowing they now have $1,000... They kept saying there was an error and other things. Eventually I gave up and risked it. I told my mom to watch out. I deleted my facebook, and blocked them on Google hangouts. I also deleted my AFF account. They still had my email and taunted me saying that they already screenshotted all my friends as a back up just in case I tried to play games. I blocked their email, and called my mom. We talked for 30 minutes while I was in shock. She hasn't gotten anything yet, but I can only imagine the damage that could be done by tomorrow... I'm a 20 year old guy in college and all I can think about is my whole family, high school friends, friends from church, friends from college, and friends from work getting this picture. I also am a sales rep so who knows how my reputation will change after this and if I'll still be able to do that job... I hope this is the right subreddit for this post. I really needed to get this off my chest. Any support? Anyone relate? How do I move forward if they do send it?
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2020.06.28 04:01 NoDa3D Miserable and alone

Husband (47) and I (42), married for 22 years were very close to divorce. I knew he was unhappy, he had completely pulled away from me, was always out "hanging w/buddies". Very long and painful story short, he had been having an emotional affair with a 25YO from work and when he was with hetalking/texting her, he told me it was a male co-worker. Another secret, female friend was a former acquaintance of mine whom he had started talking to and helping out with things around her house. He insisted there was no cheating and that he lied because he knew I'd freak out. He was unhappy with how much weight I had gained, how much weight he had gained, we never had sex and when we did, it was boring, I drink too much, he was experiencing ED, depression and anxiety. After about 5-6 months of counseling, fighting, me drilling him for more information, him being defensive and upset that I kept bringing it up, he seemed to finally decide he wanted to work things out.
Things improved, but still I struggled with his cheating and lies and was always suspicious who he was with or messaging. I knew his email password and I checked it regularly. One night I checked and found he had signed up for Adult Friend Finder and had messaged with several women. I read several of the exchanges and it was graphic and awful. I concocted a story about how a friend of a friend reached out to me after she recognized my husband on this app. I blew up at him and walked out. He texted me all night trying to explain; he has a porn addiction and AFF is just porn; he had no intent to see these women, it was just exciting to message them. I made him tell me everything again, the lies, the women, the porn, all of it. I know I didn't get all of the truth, but I decided to believe he was done with it and stay. I was miserable, hurt and betrayed, but I felt divorce would be worse than what he had put me through.
Things got better, then he started talking about wanting to move to warmer weather, which I agreed to, thinking 2-3 years down the road. Once he got it in his head though, he went at it full force; applying for jobs and looking at houses. We've moved, things are ok, we're making a new home for ourselves, but I feel like we're just roommates most of the time. He's on depression and anxiety meds, which he says cause ED. He has a prescription for that, but I guess he just doesn't have any desire for me. If I bring any of this up and try to talk and he shuts down, sulks in silence and sneaks off to bed without a word. We've had sex 4 times in the past year. I feel like he isn't attracted to me at all. I still have a lot of moments where I suspect he's lying and messaging other women. I like our new home and am trying to be happy and I can tell he's trying to make me happy, but I'm lonely, miss my kids, family and friends. I feel like he has no affection for me at all and I have no one to talk to about any of this.
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2020.04.16 01:08 FurTherese Commonly used acronyms + group chat sticky.

Chat Megathread + List of Commonly Used Acronyms
As the last megathread was old/archived, this is the new thread for group chats - if you are looking for one, or looking to recruit new people into your group, please use this thread. Feel free to post, repost, delete and repost as much as you like - within this thread.
Any and all group chat posts outside of this thread will be removed.
Any and all chat groups are something that's completely separate from this sub. Join at your own discretion. None of the /adultery mods are responsible for what goes on in these groups, nor are we (as far as I know) even members in them. Also, we are not a part of or control of any adultery-related spin-off subs, including picture-sharing subs.

None of the moderators manage any chat groups, nor are we part of any. Do not message us about joining a group.

Here's a handy glossary for adultery's not-so-secret language.
There's a lot of useful information (like this) on the adultery sidebar but the sidebar is not obvious on the mobile app. Touch the three dots in the upper righthand corner of the app, then touch "Community Info." Wonders will appear. Confirmed for iOS and Android.
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2020.03.12 17:00 JackBeDick Should we use a European Age of Consent with Regards to Women Having Sex with Teenage Boys?

I used to believe that women should be held to the same legal standard when it comes to sex with underage boys. However, I have talked to around 20 women on sites like Flickr, the gone wild subs, literotica, AdultFriendFinder.com and lush stories that admit in private messages to having sex with or exposing themselves to underage boys. They all said that the boys that they had sex with enjoyed the experience. I have also read stories about such situations online. Some examples include:
I got into a discussion on this on some right leaning subs. People don't understand that the definition of pedophilia is an attraction to prepubescent children. Teenage boys are not prepubescent and enjoy sex. They are old enough to consent to sex with older women.
So this begs the question. In most European countries, the age of consent is either 14 or 15. What these women did in these countries would not be illegal there. Would it be reasoanble to lower the age of consent in the US to match most of the sane countries in the developed world for instances when women are with teenage boys? I don't support it with older men having sex with teenagers, but that is admittedly my own bias because they seem like manipulative creeps.
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2020.03.08 21:05 funcup760 Data security on AFF vs SLS and others?

Which of the LS apps/sites has the best security? We've been on AFF (Adult Friend Finder) for a while but haven't used any of the others. I did see a post a while back where people were saying SLS's security was pretty minimal and there seemed to be some legitimate fear of data breaching, which obviously could suck for a lot of people. Have any of you delved into this topic deeply?
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2020.01.12 19:27 SoaDMTGguy PSA: Privacy disclaims on sites like AdultFriendFinder

I've seen this on AdultFriendFinder, and I figure it must be on other swinging/dating sites, too. Many people will include this or similar copypasta somewhere in their profile:
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
These "disclaimers" have no legal weight. If you read the Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy for AFF, you have already grated them full ownership of everything you post, pictures and all. In addition, it's not legally possible to hold someone to a "contract" just by writing it on your profile. They would have to click through a warning that says "By clicking here you agree to ...."
So do not fall for this and think that you are protecting yourself or your nudes with this copypasta! If you want to exercise some legal control, you need to host your pictures on a server you control, and you need to write out your terms and conditions and connect them to a button that must be clicked through to view the pictures.
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2019.10.13 23:04 DannyLumpy Halloween / Fall Events & Attractions of Vermont - October 2019

I've started compiling this year's list of Halloween / fall related activities to do in Vermont (focusing on the greater Burlington area) If anyone has anything they want to add please let me know and I'll throw it on there!
-----------------------Family Friendly-----------------------
10/18/19 – 10/19/19 Creepy Farm - $13-$15 – 6:30PM-8:30PM – Great VT Maze 1404 Wheelock Rd – Danville VT
10/19/19 – 10/24/19 A Not So Scary Halloween - $10 - 4PM-8PM – Wilson Castle UVM – Proctor VT
10/26/19 Halloween Family Fest 10 - 1PM-4PM – University Mall – South Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween Howl –FREE - 2PM-6PM - Oakledge Park – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween on Pearl Street - FREE - 4PM-8PM – Jeanne Mance Hall UVM – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Haunted House Story Spooktacular!- FREE-$10 - 5PM-8PM – Center for Arts and Learning – Montpelier VT
10/27/19 Shelburne Halloween Parade and Trick or Treating - FREE – 12:45PM- 4:30PM – 97 Falls Rd – Shelburne VT
10/27/19 Trick or Treat Street –FREE - 1PM-4PM - Church Street – Burlington VT
10/27/19 Halloween Bike Ride - FREE - 1:30PM-4PM – City Hall Park – Burlington VT
10/27/19 Harvest Concert and Potluck Dinner - FREE – 4PM-7PM – Danville Congregational Church – Danville VT
10/28/19 Haunted Happenings - $7 – 10AM-1PM – Shelburne Museum – Shelburne VT
10/30/19 Halloween Party - FREE - 4PM-6PM – Burnham Memorial Library – Colchester VT
10/30/19 - 10/31/19 Cilley Hill Pumpkin Glow - FREE - All evening – Cilley Hill Rd – Jericho VT
10/31/19 Drop In: Healthy Halloween Snacks for Kids - FREE - 9:30AM - 11:30AM – South End City Market – Burlington VT
-----------------------Less Family Friendly------------------------
Every Wed-Sun Queen City Ghostwalk Tours - $20 - Burlington VT
10/18/19 - 10/19/19 Haunted Rail Trail - FREE – 6:30PM-10:30PM – Danville Recycling Center – Danville VT
10/18/19-10/27/19 Haunted Slay Ride - 14+ - $15 – 6:30PM – Breakaway Farm – Grand Isle VT
10/19/19 Zombie 5k - 13+ - $15-$30 – 1PM – Danville School – Danville VT
10/26/19 Barktober Halloween Bash - 4PM-8PM – Switchback Brewery - Burlington VT
10/26/19 Cartooniverse Halloween Party - 8PM – Foam Brewery - Burlington VT
10/27/19 Vermont Folk Horror Roadshow - $10 – 3PM-5PM – Highland Center for the Arts – Greensboro VT
11/02/19 Halloween Murder Mystery Dinner -6PM - 9:30PM – The Essex, Vermont’s Culinary Resort and Spa - Essex VT
-----------------------Not Family Friendly-----------------------
10/17/19 – 10/19/19 Nightmare Vermont - $13-$15 - 6PM-11PM – Champlain Valley Expo – Essex VT
10/26/19 Pittsford FD Haunted House - 6PM-9PM - 126 Plains Rd - Pittsford VT
10/26/19 Halloween Masquerade Fete - $60 - 6:30PM-11:30PM – Hubble Shire Farms - Chelsea VT
11/01/19 Rocky Horror Picture Show - 11PM-2AM – Queen City Ghostwalk - Burlington VT
----------------------- Parties / Shows-----------------------
10/19/19 EDM Fright Night - 18+ - $15 - 8PM– Holiday Inn – Rutland VT
10/24/19 Wizard Fest - $15-$30 – 8:30PM – Higher Ground – South Burlington VT
10/25/19 Halloween Abduction- $10 – 7PM – Barre Elk’s Lodge 1535 – Barre VT
10/26/19 Terror Ball Halloween Party - 21+ - $10 – ALL DAY – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween Party: Zombie Outbreak - $15– 8PM-11PM – The Space on Main – Bradford VT
10/26/19 Halloween @ The Nail: Day of the Dead Sessions - 21+ - $10-$15 – 8:30PM-12AM – The Rusty Nail – Stowe VT
10/27/19 Halloween Costume Party at Fright Club Vamp Shop - 18+ - No Cover – 9PM-12PM – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/30/19 Frankie and the Witch’s Fingers - 18+ - $5 – 8PM – Nectars – Burlington VT
10/31/19 Shocktober Series - 21+ - $5 – ALL DAY – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/31/19 Cinema Casualties Presents: Night of the Demons and Doctor Butcher MD – 8PM-11PM – Arts Riot – Burlington VT
10/31/19 ArtsRiot Halloween with Low Cut Connie and Aubrey Haddard - $25 – 8PM-12AM – Arts Riot – Burlington VT
11/02/19 Electroload’s Electric Halloween - 21+ - $8-$10 – 9PM – Zenbarn– Waterbury VT
-----------------------Fall Activities-----------------------
7/28/19-10/14/19 Great Vermont Maze - $15 – 10AM-3:30PM (Recommend arriving before 1PM – 1404 Wheelock Rd – Danville VT
9/1/19 – Late October Shelburne Orchards - 9AM-5PM – 216 Orchard Rd – Shelburne VT
9/3/19-10/31/19 Sam Mazza’s Farm Market 3 Mile Corn Maze - 10AM-6PM – 277 Lavigne Rd – Colchester VT
9/15/19-10/31/19 Winslow Farms Pumpkin Patch - 10AM-5PM – 506 US Route 7 – Pittsburg VT
-----------------------Other Links / Resources-----------------------
Pumpkin Patch Finder
Apple Orchard Finder
Haunted House Finder
Halloween Events in the Upper Valley
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2019.10.13 23:02 DannyLumpy Halloween / Fall Events Near Burlington - 2019

I've started compiling this year's list of Halloween / fall related activities to do in Vermont (focusing on the greater Burlington area) If anyone has anything they want to add please let me know and I'll throw it on there!
-----------------------Family Friendly-----------------------
10/18/19 – 10/19/19 Creepy Farm - $13-$15 – 6:30PM-8:30PM – Great VT Maze 1404 Wheelock Rd – Danville VT
10/19/19 – 10/24/19 A Not So Scary Halloween - $10 - 4PM-8PM – Wilson Castle UVM – Proctor VT
10/26/19 Halloween Family Fest 10 - 1PM-4PM – University Mall – South Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween Howl –FREE - 2PM-6PM - Oakledge Park – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween on Pearl Street - FREE - 4PM-8PM – Jeanne Mance Hall UVM – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Haunted House Story Spooktacular!- FREE-$10 - 5PM-8PM – Center for Arts and Learning – Montpelier VT
10/27/19 Shelburne Halloween Parade and Trick or Treating - FREE – 12:45PM- 4:30PM – 97 Falls Rd – Shelburne VT
10/27/19 Trick or Treat Street –FREE - 1PM-4PM - Church Street – Burlington VT
10/27/19 Halloween Bike Ride - FREE - 1:30PM-4PM – City Hall Park – Burlington VT
10/27/19 Harvest Concert and Potluck Dinner - FREE – 4PM-7PM – Danville Congregational Church – Danville VT
10/28/19 Haunted Happenings - $7 – 10AM-1PM – Shelburne Museum – Shelburne VT
10/30/19 Halloween Party - FREE - 4PM-6PM – Burnham Memorial Library – Colchester VT
10/30/19 - 10/31/19 Cilley Hill Pumpkin Glow - FREE - All evening – Cilley Hill Rd – Jericho VT
10/31/19 Drop In: Healthy Halloween Snacks for Kids - FREE - 9:30AM - 11:30AM – South End City Market – Burlington VT
-----------------------Less Family Friendly------------------------
Every Wed-Sun Queen City Ghostwalk Tours - $20 - Burlington VT
10/18/19 - 10/19/19 Haunted Rail Trail - FREE – 6:30PM-10:30PM – Danville Recycling Center – Danville VT
10/18/19-10/27/19 Haunted Slay Ride - 14+ - $15 – 6:30PM – Breakaway Farm – Grand Isle VT
10/19/19 Zombie 5k - 13+ - $15-$30 – 1PM – Danville School – Danville VT
10/26/19 Barktober Halloween Bash - 4PM-8PM – Switchback Brewery - Burlington VT
10/26/19 Cartooniverse Halloween Party - 8PM – Foam Brewery - Burlington VT
10/27/19 Vermont Folk Horror Roadshow - $10 – 3PM-5PM – Highland Center for the Arts – Greensboro VT
11/02/19 Halloween Murder Mystery Dinner -6PM - 9:30PM – The Essex, Vermont’s Culinary Resort and Spa - Essex VT
-----------------------Not Family Friendly-----------------------
10/17/19 – 10/19/19 Nightmare Vermont - $13-$15 - 6PM-11PM – Champlain Valley Expo – Essex VT
10/26/19 Pittsford FD Haunted House - 6PM-9PM - 126 Plains Rd - Pittsford VT
10/26/19 Halloween Masquerade Fete - $60 - 6:30PM-11:30PM – Hubble Shire Farms - Chelsea VT
11/01/19 Rocky Horror Picture Show - 11PM-2AM – Queen City Ghostwalk - Burlington VT
----------------------- Parties / Shows-----------------------
10/19/19 EDM Fright Night - 18+ - $15 - 8PM– Holiday Inn – Rutland VT
10/24/19 Wizard Fest - $15-$30 – 8:30PM – Higher Ground – South Burlington VT
10/25/19 Halloween Abduction- $10 – 7PM – Barre Elk’s Lodge 1535 – Barre VT
10/26/19 Terror Ball Halloween Party - 21+ - $10 – ALL DAY – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/26/19 Halloween Party: Zombie Outbreak - $15– 8PM-11PM – The Space on Main – Bradford VT
10/26/19 Halloween @ The Nail: Day of the Dead Sessions - 21+ - $10-$15 – 8:30PM-12AM – The Rusty Nail – Stowe VT
10/27/19 Halloween Costume Party at Fright Club Vamp Shop - 18+ - No Cover – 9PM-12PM – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/30/19 Frankie and the Witch’s Fingers - 18+ - $5 – 8PM – Nectars – Burlington VT
10/31/19 Shocktober Series - 21+ - $5 – ALL DAY – Lamp Shop – Burlington VT
10/31/19 Cinema Casualties Presents: Night of the Demons and Doctor Butcher MD – 8PM-11PM – Arts Riot – Burlington VT
10/31/19 ArtsRiot Halloween with Low Cut Connie and Aubrey Haddard - $25 – 8PM-12AM – Arts Riot – Burlington VT
11/02/19 Electroload’s Electric Halloween - 21+ - $8-$10 – 9PM – Zenbarn– Waterbury VT
-----------------------Fall Activities-----------------------
7/28/19-10/14/19 Great Vermont Maze - $15 – 10AM-3:30PM (Recommend arriving before 1PM – 1404 Wheelock Rd – Danville VT
9/1/19 – Late October Shelburne Orchards - 9AM-5PM – 216 Orchard Rd – Shelburne VT
9/3/19-10/31/19 Sam Mazza’s Farm Market 3 Mile Corn Maze - 10AM-6PM – 277 Lavigne Rd – Colchester VT
9/15/19-10/31/19 Winslow Farms Pumpkin Patch - 10AM-5PM – 506 US Route 7 – Pittsburg VT
-----------------------Other Links / Resources-----------------------
Pumpkin Patch Finder
Apple Orchard Finder
Haunted House Finder
Halloween Events in the Upper Valley
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2019.09.22 08:54 hide200 My (f42) fiancé (m41) is attracted to trans women. He said I give him what he needs, but recently I’ve found him on chat sites. I’m not handling it well.

We’ve had a rough couple of months. He wrecked his car and it was totaled. He got into trouble for a Facebook rant, almost got arrested for it, and may have lost his job. We’re still waiting to find out about that. In among all of that I find out he’s on Grindr and adult friend finder looking for trans women. At first I thought he was cheating. He never did anything physical, didn’t even meet up, and I guess we just have different ideas of fidelity. I decided I could treat it like porn and let it go, but I’m having real trouble. I’ve been having some emotional issues, mostly due to my daughter being a senior and the relationship between him and her being strained. (He’s bipolar and had a blowup during his last big manic episode) I’ve been trying to keep it together but sometimes it’s hard. Last Monday I got into an obsessive loop, and kept looking at his profile on aff again and again. I had kind of an emotional breakdown that next morning. He told me in the course of that, that one of the reasons he went looking was I was “batshit crazy,” and he needed a little levity in his life. This morning (Saturday) I was crying a little because it was my daughters “last first” band competition. He was going to pick up his new car with his dad. He told me he had needed me to be strong throughout all this, and I hadn’t been.
I felt really, well, angry. I’ve gone to bat for him. I spoke to people who were involved with the trouble he got into when all he wanted to do was beat them senseless. I cook and clean and do laundry while he sleeps all day and all night. I give him back rubs almost every night. I wear lingerie and we have excellent sex very often. But I get a little weepy and I haven’t been strong enough? Ok. But that’s not really why I’m here.
I do not understand his thing with trans women. I knew about it. His last girlfriend was trans and she messed him up emotionally. Really badly. He still focuses on things she said to him when they were breaking up three years later. He says trans women are the ultimate domination to him (he’s very dominant sexually, which I like very much) and that is something I can’t ever give him. I’m trying to understand so I don’t feel threatened by this. He says he’s stopped chatting and I believe him, but I also don’t want to be lied to again. I know it will happen again it’s something he obviously needs, and I have to decide if I can accept it.
Before you start in with “he’s gay,” he isn’t. He is attracted at least partly to the exaggerated femininity of trans women. I’ve often said he likes women so much he doesn’t care if they have a penis. Trans women are women, and that’s not an issue. If he were gay, he’d be gay. That’s not an issue. I just don’t understand why he can dominate me in every way but I still don’t give him what he needs. He flat out said they give him something I can’t, even though he spent the last three years telling me that I gave him everything he needed.
I know no one can be 100% of everything to anyone. If that chatting is something he needs, and it doesn’t turn into anything else, I really want to back off and be ok with it. I’m having trouble being ok with it. Any thoughts? (I have hit the high points. This is a long and complicated story, but this is the gist of it.)
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2019.09.20 11:23 iamaconfusedfriend After 7 years, my wife 28F and I 29M are trying an open relationship

TL;DR My wife and I have had a dysfunctional sex life since we got married 7 years ago. We agreed recently that we shouldn't feel confined sexually by our relationship, and that we're supportive of each other exploring sexually with others. Tonight, she told me she had sex with another guy.
We both have a conservative Christian background, now are not religious. My wife also has a history of sexual trauma. Our first few years of marriage, we both thought that it was our duty to fulfill each other's sexual needs. This meant lots of duty sex from her and not much communication about what she was actually going through. The more I reached for how to please her sexually, the more guilt and shame she felt. She didn't have any orgasms until she finally got a vibrator 2 years ago, at the age of 26. We kind of just settled into a routine of one sided sex. I hated the fact that it was one sided. But, didn't know how to change it. I also had a sexual ethic that saw being sexually satisfied in her as morally good and protective from "lust" or whatever.
Finally, she started speaking up for herself and setting boundaries over the course of the last few months. This meant way less sex, and I became more comfortable with porn and masturbation. She let me know at this point that I could have sex with other people. I made a profile on Adult Friend Finder, and it was not a great experience. I didn't connect with anyone, and ended up deleting my account after our counselor recommended taking a step back.
The last few days, my wife started complaining about not having any friends, and also clarified our status as an open relationship. She started using bumble, and I thought it was great that she was branching out. She said she was using BFF mode, but also talked about the dating mode. I talked with my counselor, and she gave sort of a green/yellow light on exploring sexually. She mentioned FetLife, so I made a profile on there. But, it's been a similar experience to AFF.
Tonight, my wife went to meet someone at a bar, and got back around midnight. She came to bed naked, woke me up, and we had sex. After I finished (still one sided) she said she had sex with another guy. At first, I was just happy for her. It seemed like it was a positive experience for her. But then, my brain started going all over the place. She would not tell me any details about the sex itself. Just that she feels like she needs to experience sex with other people to heal and develop sexually, particularly because of the years of duty sex. I'm totally fine with giving her that space, but I can't stop thinking about what they did. Was there oral? She has never let me go down on her. Did she just lay there like she does with me? Is she going to meet him again? What does this mean for me? She talked a bit about their conversation at the bar. She was very upfront about our relationship status, and he was very concerned that it was clear with me.
We are actually very on the same page about how our history of purity culture and misogyny, coupled with her sexual trauma, led to a very unhealthy sex life. And that means that no matter how I change right now, and I have changed, I am a trigger for her. We're both in individually therapy, have tried couples sessions with not much progress. She struggles with anxiety and depression. That coupled with the sexual trauma and the sexual strain in our relationship is a lot to deal with all at once. I'm glad she's taking this step. As long as she's safe, I think it will really help her have a more positive view of sex. I'm hopeful that long term I can be part of that possitivity. I recognize that in order for that to happen, I'll need to grow more than I already have as well. I recognize that it might not happen. Maybe we'll be married but find more sexual satisfaction in others. Maybe we'll split.
I made a profile on bumble. I'm nervous about friends or coworkers seeing my profile and thinking I'm a cheater or just not understanding open marriages. I also don't want to mislead people on there. If someone has looking for a relationship, should that be an immediate swipe left no matter what? I'll definitely be clear about my marital status and intentions. I put "something casual" in the looking for. I left out that I'm married, although I included a picture of my wife. I'll bring it up in messages most likely. I'm not totally sure what my intentions are actually. I don't think I'd be interested in a hook up with no conversation. And I'd be interested in conversation/hanging out with no hook up. But, I definitely am not looking to replace my relationship with my wife; she's definitely my primary partner.
I've read books like come as you are, she comes first, sexless marriage, the sexual healing journey. I think I need to branch out from the books, porn, and our marriage. Any advice as I enter this new stage?
Edit: We have 2 kids, 2 and 5.
Edit: I should add that we did set some guidelines.
I know it's not much, but it does help to at least sort of have ground rules.
I think we're both still discovering what we want, and if she's answering to me, it feels like I'm still owning her sexuality in a sense.
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2019.09.13 18:17 Sftiger2006 An other story.

So this encounter happened about 3 and a half years ago. This also took place on Adult Friend Finder. This story, did not have the same results as my previous story. I still would like to share it.
After I had met Jesse and had my fun, I deactivated my account and didn't log back on until a few months later. Again, I was on there looking for a mature woman. This time around I messaged a lady and instead of being ignored or simply told I was not what they were looking for, she replied back. We bonded over her screen name, which a reference to her high school mascot. It was something along the lines of tigersfv or something like that, funny thing is that is also the inspiration for my screen name. From her pictures, Donna looked like a nerdy bbw Latina. She was in her early 40s, single and looking to see what she could find on aff. Donna was bottom heavy, as she had small breast in contras to her big cottage cheese behind. She almost looked disproportionated as ass to tits go. She was Mexican/Hawaiian. Which intrigued me, I was interested in finding out how she would feel.
So after we messaged for about a week, set up to meet. As she did not have a ride, we arranged that I would go pick her up. So I did, we met outside her house. When I pulled up, I texted her that I was outside. As she walked out, I noticed a woman come out from the side door of the house. However, she looked a bit more heavier and older. She was also dressed a bit too casual in my opinion, but whatever. She got in my car, we went to have coffee and talk to get a feel for each other. I found out that she was single and was living in a guest with two daughters after a separating from her "babydaddy." She also said, she never thought about the possibility that a younger man would be into her. However, there was one detail she mentioned that made things go south for me. She mentioned something about a man, that would visit her and give her money. This was because at the time she was unemployed. This sounded funny to me. I was like no one simply just gives you money.
So anyways, we had our coffee and we headed back to her house. She invited in. As we are walking in the house, there is a teenage girl shaving her legs in the living room. The first thing she says to what turns out to be her mom is, " You aren't going to have sex with him too!?." At that point, I though is this woman a prostitute of some sort. So we went to her bedroom, which she shared with her daughters. She went on talked a bit more about her current situation. The man that gave her money would visit her on a weekly basis. She also had other friends that she would frequent. The guess house where she was staying was of one of these friends. Her daughter left shortly after. Which, I helped me make my escape a bit easier. As the daughter left, she went to sent her on her way. I too said, I had to go. I made up some excuse about something coming up at work and needed to go. So I made my escape. She texted me later saying that I left to sudden. She had intentions of having some fun and send me a picture of her breasts. I texted her, "next time." And that was the last text I sent her. I didn't want to proceed with her.
About a year later, she came up on my social media as someone you may know. I blocked her. Well, thanks for reading. Again, I am open to feedback and comments. Thanks.
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2019.05.17 19:28 Subslave111 Need help figuring out if a dom is trying to scam me

I apologize if this is super long winded.
I am completely new to the BDSM world. A few weeks ago I started talking to a Dom through a site called AdultFreindFinder(she contacted me) and i'm now pretty sure its a scam but I would like a few others opinions to see if my hunch is correct.
I am going to post the transcripts of our email exchange and hopefully someone with more experience can shed light on this for me.
on AFF chat:
Her:
I'm new here and the website sent me your profile and says you are my new match, I don't know if you got my profile as well. After checking your profile out and seeing our compatibility chart is very high, I guess we might be a match after all. So this what I am looking for, am looking for a submissive pussy licking sex slave who is interested in BDSM/Kinky play, the key word here being SUBMISSIVE and BDSM/KINKY play. I know this is not for everyone, but if this something you want or dream about we can fulfill your fantasies together do check out my profile and send me a message ASAP.
Mistress Ann.
P:S This is going to be a soft BDSM sex slave, very mild bondage, this will be exploring more of pleasure than pain. Disregard this message if you don't have any submissive tendencies at all.
Me:
This is intriguing and I am interested in learning more about you and the domain of submission. I will be honest and say that I have very little experience in the kinky play area but I consider myself very open to experience.
Her:
Perfect let's continue this conversation in a more private environment. What I seek is a smart, intelligent, obedient and eager to serve sub and I think that might be you. Reply this message with your email address so I can contact you and set in motion the process to make you my submissive slut just because I don't get on here as much as I would like and I wouldn't want to leave you in limbo about making you my sex slave...
Mistress Ann.
Me:
At this point I give her a throw away email address

Chat moves to email:
Her:
I'm very pleased to be contacting you via regular email, the little exchanges we have had so far shows that our interest is aligned. This is the first step into making you all that you can become in serving and making me happy and in the process satisfying you as well and you need to be dominated by such a beautiful lady as myself in a real-life scenario.
This is not a trail for you to know and discover if you are submissive or not. For this, to work you have to know you are submissive and ready to stay submissive. If at this point you are unsure, I'll advise you to stop reading this email now, ignore it and not reply so no more time is wasted cause this is going nowhere if you are not truly submissive. If you have kept on reading and sure you are submissive then we can move forward and proceed.
I expect you to always be honest with me to be my slave, respecting me goes without saying slave you must always remember that you are the slave always in this relationship, therefore, I make all the decisions in this dynamic and you must always refer to me as MISTRESS. Like I previously pointed out and am sure by now you know that for this to work on any level you have to be submissive not playing at it. You will be dominated and toyed with by me for both our pleasures and the full spectrum of BDSM which may include, ass worship, anal penetration (mine), physical humiliation, psychical punishment (yours), forced masturbation, as long as its within your boundaries,you will be punished accordingly if you fail to attain my goals of you pleasing me. I will have variations of cute names that I will call you such as slut pie, sex slut you will answer to these names when I call you.
Anything public is of limits for me slave, I value my privacy very much, this means that all our plays will only be behind closed doors to assure maximum discretion, at no point will I send you any nude pictures of me via any medium even after our sessions have started. I hope you are insatiable as I am and ready to go on for long hours to please me, slave. During our plays protection will be paramount until such a time that you can show me that you are clean, safe and disease free as I am. For now, you are under a period of evaluation that will help me to determine if you are suitable to be my slave in the long term cause that's my ultimate goal. Since we have established that you are indeed submissive I don't envisage any problems with making you my slave and that process can start after you have replied this email.
Your Mistress Ann.
Me:
Yes Mistress.
Her:
Excellent my slave, I'll like to start with knowing your name.
Mistress Ann.
Me:
I give her my nickname
Her:
I am a mature and sexy 36-year-old woman, divorced and originally from Germany. I came over here 5 years ago back when I was still married to my husband. I was married for 4 years and divorced for 2.My whole life is here now a slave and am looking forward to making you a part of it. I don't know the caliber of women you have come across in your life but there is none in my class. I have been an active player in this lifestyle for a while and know what am doing, of course, you are welcomed to make your thoughts known if you think they are contrary to mine but with respect, remember you are the slave always. I am a bisexual domme with experience of unparalleled domination and alluring control. I want to make you my slave with my understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of this lifestyle. I am strict when the occasions call for it and sensual and provocative when I choose to be. I am quite generous and you have to be as well to be my slave.
Like I emphasized in my previous email we are moving ahead because I am sure by now you know for sure that you are submissive that this is definitely for you, so you won't have any problems relinquishing control to me slave? I can be free early in the day or late in the evening depending on my workload, I can work around your availability as well, let me know what times you think are best for you my slave. I want to start spending time with you ASAP slave, am ready to meet and start training you, you do however have to satisfy all of my criteria to be my acceptable slave slut and this you will know in due time my slut, its a short process that you must go through. At least we should be able to have at least a session together within a 2 week period, we will be able to manage this more effectively after a couple of sessions together. Training will be at my place for straight up sessions, we met on a sex site we both know that our aim is sexual gratification, so there will be no wining and dining just making our fantasies and desires a reality.
My fantasies and desires are more "BD" and very much less of "SM".So there will be no sadistic intentions towards you my slave. There will be more of role-playing and playing with sensual toys and accessories my slave, am familiar with almost every scenario of role-playing my slut, just keep in mind my slut whatever role we are playing Sexy professor and student, Sexy nurse, and patient whatever it is am always in control. I am a mistress with little limits, dominant very strict and caring, I have been a mistress for a pretty long time, as a lifestyle choice and I have experienced almost every fetish, either with slaves that I have owned myself or at fetish parties with my other dommes friends. However, I would love to know your limits so it can help me in molding you to be my perfect slave. I live in Oakland, so planning for our sessions with being easier and less stressful. We live in close proximity to each other we can have short sessions of about 2-3 hours at regular intervals.
I have further instructions for you.I'm dead serious about being the ONLY mistress you can have other filings(non-dominant girlfriend/wife) but I must be your only mistress, when you are with me, I want your full attention if you are going to be the slave for me I hope you are, if by now you still have others(dominant women), I want you to get rid of them and that is my first order to you and it requires your maximum obedience. Your second task is to send decent pictures of yourself to me in your next email no dick pics slave, I want to see what you look like and reply with more details about you using my email as a source of inspiration.
Your Mistress Ann.
(she sent me pictures of herself in lingerie as well at this point)
Me:
Mistress,
I am ready to submit and be your slave.
I am a 29 year old single man, never married and no significant women in my life currently. I am 5'8" tall and have a fit/athletic build. I have never had a mistress before and I look forward to being your slave. I trust you and only you to be my mistress. I think its admirable that you are so true to yourself and know who you are and what you want. I am happy to serve you and be a part of that vision.
My schedule shifts from week to week, there are times when I am very busy or out of town and other times when I am free. Later in the evening/night can work for me more consistently, however morning may also be open depending on the day. If I am in town weekends are generally open and available. This we can work out on a session to session basis and I will do my utmost best to conform to your preference. I would also like to start ASAP. I am okay with the frequency of at least 1 session every 2 weeks, however I am open to increasing this as you train me to be your slave. This can start as soon as tomorrow(Sunday 5/5). I will be unavailable from 5/8-5/13 as I will be out of town.
In terms of my limits, I am fairly open to most things on the "BD" side of things. I feel as you train me and our relationship as mistress and slave grows that my hard and soft limits will become more clear as I gain understanding of how I will be serving you and what types of things we will be doing. One hard limit I have currently is not overextending my right shoulder backwards as I recently injured it and it is in the later stages of healing. This should not be a problem after a few more weeks. In terms of the "SM" side of things, you have already mentioned that this will be limited given your desires for me as your slave. That being said I am not comfortable with severe physical abuse resulting in excessive bleeding and scarring especially on commonly exposed areas of the body such as the face. As I mentioned earlier these limits will evolve as we journey down this path.
I have attached pictures of myself for you. I recently decided to get rid of my hair and have included pictures of me both with and without. I don't take many pictures of myself. Please let me know if you would like more.
I am ready to relinquish control to you and give you my undivided attention.
Your slave
Her:
I Wore Up Thinking About Using You My Sex Slave
You arrived as instructed at your Goddess home for training to commence. You knock on the door and wait. I open the door and using my finger signal for you to enter. I point to the floor, you remove your clothing and fold it neatly and place them in the corner, you turn around and then get down onto your knees and lower your head, and place your hands behind your back.
I place a collar on your neck, then I secure your hands behind your back. I then instruct you to look at me, as you raise your head I start to remove my clothes. I notice you becoming extremely hard and excited from seeing your Goddess remove her clothes, standing there with only her bra and panties on, I instruct you to remove my already soaked panties being so wet expecting you since using your teeth. You come closer to me on your knees and gently get your teeth on the waistband of my panties and slowly work them down, moving around me and focusing on the waistband of my panties. As you finally remove my panties, I have already removed my leash and now I look down on you attaching the leash to your collar and say," slut, if you are very good in your training today you will be rewarded very generously" you reply, yes Mistress." I then lead you to the side of the bed with you leash like my little slut bitch that you are...
I take the bonds of your hands and tell you to get on the bed, no on the bed I tie your hands to the headboard and your legs to the foot of the bed and then I start smothering you with my pussy while I popped your cock and balls with my crop (gently). I'm grinding my pussy in your face wiping my nectar all over you, and the sweet smell of juicy wet pussy and the stinging from my crop made your sissy cock so hard. Soon I'll cum in your face and force you to eat all of it. Then I take some clamps and placed them on each of your nipples. You grit your teeth as the sharp pinching sensations running through your body. Your mistress pops your cock and balls again with her crop turning your throbbing cock harder and harder. She pauses and then gently strokes it with her hand and spits on it. Mistress leans down and takes your cock in her mouth. She strokes up and down giving you firm bites along with your cock head and shaft as she goes. Then your mistress climbs on top of you and allows you to feel her pussy slide down on your cock while she tugs on the chain attached to the nipple clamps. You grimace in the sweet pain that makes you thrust up deep inside her. You so want to grab her and grind inside her, but she has you tied, and you are at my mercy as I tease you by pulling my pussy off of you and pulling on your nipples again. She uses her crop to spank your cock once again. I continue this cycle repeatedly training your cock to be obedient to my pussy until finally your Mistress mounts you for the final time and bounces up and down and back and forth on your grinding her clit down on you till you can hold it no longer. At that moment, Mistress gives a gentle yank on the nipple clamps and I cum so hard and intense feeling the sweet pain run down your body and through your cock as you erupt inside me.
Your Very Horny Mistress Ann.
Me:
I want nothing more than to please you mistress. Your desires are one with my desires. Please use me.
Her:
My Sex Slave,
I am very happy getting to know you better and glad I choose you to be my fucktoy bitch slave. Your words portray respect, readiness, and willingness to serve as my worthy sub. I am going to do everything to make you my perfect slave, through light and erotic assignments, teasing and other activities that will bring your true submissive nature out to the surface my fucktoy slut.
Been a lifestyle domme my slut, am not in a mistress mode all the time, when our relationship takes off there will be some flirting, kissing and touching that might be considered vanilla a scenario where we just enjoy each other and not necessarily in a Mistress/slave setting. However, keep in mind that our relation stems from a Mistress and slave dynamic and you must remember you are the slave always. I do a little volunteer work when I can and am a registered member of the red cross. I work as an interior designer and decorator, it can be quite a tasking job with deadlines and perfectionist clients but I like to push myself as much as I can and I enjoy it. I am excited and looking forward to the memorable times we'll share together as Mistress and slave.
This is my evaluation so far my fucktoy bitch slave ***, through our communication, you have opened up to me my slave and with a little training, you can become my perfect male slut. Your response to my erotic email very enthusiastic my slave and it showed me that indeed you are ready to become a fucktoy bitch slave. We'll proceed with starting our session. I'll get back to you on the dates and times we can begin. Reply ASAP.
Love Your Mistress Ann.
Me:
Mistress,
The more I learn about you, the more I feel like I have to learn from you. I am ready to begin this new relationship with you as your slave. I hold volunteer service in a high respect and am turned on by the fact that you do work for the greater good. I am eager to begin training with you. Nothing would make me happier than to be the slave you want me to be even in those times where you are not in mistress mode, I am your slave.
I have actually recently become interested in interior design of small intentional spaces for the purpose of creating the most ideal environments to support mind, body and soul. I would love to learn from you in that way as well.
My anticipation to serve you grows by the minute, I look forward to hearing back from you.
Your humble slave
Her:
My pussy licking cum slavetoy
I want you to grab my ass in ecstasy while I ride your face with my juicy wet pussy. I want our bodies to connect on a spiritual level with our hands, fingers, breathe and everything else sensually entwined. I have a very wild imagination and I would love to help you reach your highest point of pleasure as you serve me, I want to take you on a journey (long term) if you prove worthy of my SUPREMACY. Your cock is mine to do with as I please my fucktoy bitch slave, this means you can only cum with my permission slave, from now on, no jerking off with my permission slave. I will teach you to make me squirt uncontrollably, I'll convert you into a fully automated pussy licking, ass worshiping slave puppy.
My panties are soaked thinking about using you my fucktoy slut love ***, we can have our sessions on the 15th and 17th and we can start in the morning around 11 am or evening around 5 pm on these dates. Let me know my fucktoy bitch slave if this timeline works for you. If we proceed from this point my slave there will be some financial commitments for both of us.
I have different approaches I used in training my slaves in the past my slave, I will study you my slave and determine what specific technique to use in teaching you all the different ways to please me. I have had 3 long term subs in the past my slave, one before I was married, another briefly about a year ago and I currently own a female slave that I play with from time to time,she is an air hostess so don't get to play with her as much as I would like which prompted my search for a male slave,I've been looking for a male slut for a little time now and I think I have found the perfect slave in you my slut. Looking forward to putting my collar of possession on you my slave and attach your leash and walk you around in your true submissive nature, you must not disobey my direct orders and wish slave, to please me you must always follow my instructions when it pertains to our mistress slave relationship. Respond ASAP
Your Mistress Ann.
(she sent me regular clothes pictures in this email(same woman from previous as per pictures)
Me:
The way you convey your desire through words is unparalleled. You paint a picture in my imagination that only makes me want to serve you more mistress. My primary purpose is to serve you and fulfill your deepest desires, anything above that is a mere bonus. My pleasure is secondary to your will and I will do anything to please you. I cant wait to be trained to be everything you want me to be. I can already feel the tension and its growing. You are now in control of my sexual impulses. The journey has already begun. I will worship you as the goddess you are. Lead and I will follow.
The 15th and the 17th works for me, I am not entirely sure of my work schedule yet. Lets tentatively meet in the morning on the Wednesday the 15th and in the evening on Friday the 17th.
I am open to the financial commitments. I'm curious about what this will entail?
I know that from the moment I lay eyes on you, I will be lost in your ocean. Unable to do anything but surrender.
Your humble slave
Her:
My fucktoy bitch slave, we'll begin our session on the evening of the 15th my fucktoy bitch slave ***. I am sure you know any form of relationship at some point will involve some financial decisions (dinner, the occasional gift and such).In a relationship like this, the financial decisions come early on in bondage clothing, bondage tools, and toys my fucktoy bitch slave to augment our experience. I enjoy been dominant so am Mistress, not a Dominatrix so I don't do this for money and I don't expect you to pay for sessions or anything like that my slave, however for our fantasies to become a reality and sessions reach its sexual satisfying peak there are tools needed to augment that experience my slave.
Your Mistress Ann.
Me:
Yea I expected all of that.
Is there anything you would like me to get prior to our first session mistress? I want to be as ready as possible so that I may be able to serve you to the best of my ability. Your slave
Her:
My Fucktoy Bitch Slave,
Your darkest passions still lie dormant inside you my fucktoy slut, I haven't even begun to tap in your full total submissiveness, my slave. These desires are waiting, sweltering and pulsing with every breath waiting for your Goddess to awaken them with just a single touch and mold and stimulate you into perfection. I will be hosting our training session at my home in Oakland my fucktoy bitch slave. I will like to spend at least spend up to 3 hours with you my fucktoy bitch during our first session, our first time together is going to be quite exciting, you and I are going to discuss at length what's about to happen in our session together and both decide on a safe word if one as to be chosen.
Like I mentioned my slave we at the point where a financial commitment is required. There are a few tools and equipment that have to be available before our sessions begin my slave. I don't use bondage tools that have shared with the previous slave, these are going to be new and exclusive for you and me my fucktoy bitch slave. I have discreet supplier my fucktoy bitch slave and a list of which includes but not limited to Deluxe SS/Leather Collar,Locking Men‘s Chrome Collar w/ Ring,KinkLab Double-Lock Police-Style Handcuffs,Nylon Rope, 25-ft,Adjustable Wrist,Corinthian Corset Dress,leather chastity Briefs With Penis Hole,Nipple Clamps and Cock Ring Set,Pjur Back Door Glide,Envy Five Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator. So am ready and willing to make a commitment to making you my slave by paying at least half of this cost of the toys right now, I presume that you are willing, ready and able to do the same before our training begins my fucktoy bitch slave. If you are unable to make this commitment at least 2 days before the date your training starts now my slave, we will have to reschedule for another time.
This is a one time only payment and these are the tools we will continue to use as long as you are my fucktoy bitch ***. Your quota my slave will be $800 and you will make payment to the toys' supplier my fucktoy bitch in readiness for our session to begin. This will show me that you are indeed ready and willing to be committed to being my sissy fucktoy bitch. I will be waiting for your response
Love Your Forever Mistress Ann.
Me:
Yes mistress, I am out of town. I apologize for the delayed responsiveness, I am away from my computer and phone most of the time while I am here. I will be back in town on Monday night or Tuesday morning. Please advise me of further details about the next steps and I will do my best to proceed within the given time frames that you provided.
My fire to serve you grows every day.
Your slave
Her:
My fucktoy bitch slave ***, I hope you are having a great time at the festival, my slave. I'm super excited as well my fucktoy bitch slave, can't stop thinking of using you my slut. Planning on getting a collar with maybe your name on it my fucktoy bitch slave what do you think. Like I alluded to my slave you'll be making payment for your share of the bondage gear directly to my supplier. She is a mistress as well very versed in the lifestyle, reliable and I always get my bondage tools from her. The method of payment will be bitcoin, my slave. Are you familiar with bitcoin?
Love Your Mistress Ann.
Me:
Mistress,
Forgive me for my lack of responsiveness, I did not get back from my trip until yesterday and had work straight away until 8pm.
I am not too familiar with bitcoin. That being said, I dont quite understand why all this discretion needs to take place in the acquisition of simple items for our sessions. It seems a bit much given that we haven't met yet.
Her:
Ok, slave ***, first you don't reply to my emails on time and now you are the expert on what as to happen before we begin our sessions?

Thats where we've left off so far and im not sure if I should continue conversing with her or if I should just call it quits. It seems sketch that the acquisition of these toys/items will be done through her friend and that its paid for using bitcoin. This feels like a textbook toys scam to me but a very well played one. That being said if it isn't I can only imagine the things that will ensue....
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2019.05.07 02:49 marriedscoundrel Kik Megathread + List of Commonly Used Acronyms

As the last megathread was old/archived, this is the new thread for Kik groups - if you are looking for one, or looking to recruit new people into your group, please use this thread. Feel free to post, repost, delete and repost as much as you like - within this thread.
Any and all kik posts outside of this thread will be removed.
Any and all Kik groups are something that's completely separate from this sub. Join at your own discretion. None of the /adultery mods are responsible for what goes on in these groups, nor are we (as far as I know) even members in them. Also, we are not a part of or control of any adultery-related spin-off subs, including picture-sharing subs.
I do not manage any Kik groups, nor am I a part of any. Do not message me about joining a group.
While we're here, here's a list of commonly used acronyms.
Here's a handy glossary for adultery's not-so-secret language.
  • AP: affair partner
  • pAP: potential affair partner
  • LDAP: long distance affair partner
  • LTAP: long term affair partner
  • plus various build-a-bear variations involving p(otential)/x, l(ong), d(istance)/t(erm), e(motional), and AP. ex: pLDEAP.
  • AFF: AdultFriendFinder
  • AM: AshleyMadison.com
  • CL: craigslist
  • DADT: don't ask don't tell
  • DB: dead bedroom
  • DB: dad bod, often pasty white
  • EA: emotional affair
  • FWB: friends with benefits
  • MM: married man
  • MW: married woman
  • NC: no contact
  • NRE: new relationship energy
  • NSA: no strings attached
  • OKC: OkCupid
  • ONS: one night stand
  • OpSec: operational security
  • PoF: PlentyofFish
  • SB: sugar baby
  • SD: sugar daddy
  • SO: significant other
There's a lot of useful information (like this) on the adultery sidebar but the sidebar is not obvious on the mobile app. Touch the three dots in the upper righthand corner of the app, then touch "Community Info." Wonders will appear. Confirmed for IOS and Android.
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2019.04.04 16:59 hashimusashi Ever had trouble finding the right group to game with?


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TL;DR: I’m starting a site called Tabletop Alley to help tabletop gamers find groups to play with online and in real life. Does this kind of site interest you?

Hey guys, I’m a long time lurker first time poster here.
My name’s Greg and I’ve run into this problem pretty frequently in my life. I recently read a tweet by Sly Flourish and thought the same - It’s strange we live in a time where we are so rife with technology but it’s still challenging to get a good group together.

I’ve taken up the challenge to create www.tabletopalley.com in hopes to help solve this problem and lower the barrier of entry for all players who want to participate in tabletop gaming. Think of it as group-finder for meeting friends to play tabletop games with.

I’m at the super early stages of my project and am really looking for feedback and engagement from the community from the get-go. There’s not much of a site there (yet!), but this is a massive passion project for me so I will be releasing incremental updates frequently.

Even though there isn’t much there yet, there’s lots you guys can do to help me out. The first thing is visiting www.tabletopalley.com and signing up will give me a vote of confidence that I need to continue on, on this adventure. I’ll send you updates on progress and different opportunities to engage as they come along.

The second way you can help me is by following my twitter https://twitter.com/tabletopalley
I’ll be sharing updates and content there frequently.

The third way, if you’re up for it, I’ve put together a really short questionnaire that you can find here. https://forms.gle/CzvzbrYPy6RvxN3CA Answering these questions will give me a better idea of who wants this kind of service and where to focus my efforts first.

And finally, I’ve started a Discord server where we can stay in touch and talk about development, design and also gaming in general. https://discord.gg/93MnKmm

If you’ve made it this far, thank you so much. I’m eager and nervous to hear about what you guys think! I'll be around to talk and answer any questions.
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2019.03.14 04:53 FlokianNovels Was ( 22/M) he cheating on me (20/F) and is he still ..? And is there a way to confront it?

Not sure how to start this, but basically my boyfriend and my relationship has been really shaky recently. Our main issues really was just communication, it just led to a lot of problems. Then he became very secretive of anything with his phone and "friends" he was hanging out with. He would lie about who he was talking to, and who he was seeing. I actually found out that he was talking to some girl.. (he has friends who are girls, so maybe I'm over reacting but he's never mentioned her before.) He also told her that we broke up when we didn't, I found a nude photo on his phone (he doesn't send me any, so..?), and they've been hanging out when he says he's hanging out with a male friend.. He had been really distant and cold to me during this time. But then one day I tried to talk to him and he just made it seem like it was over. I kept asking to fix things, but we never got around to it from the subject changing and me falling asleep. The days after that have been alright. But I feel so confused and I'm not sure what to think. For one he wanted to break up, but he's asked me over every night, he still gives me kisses, and he acts like how we used to when things we fine. I really want to talk to him about things and ask if we're even together, but I never get a chance because I feel so caught up in things being better. But just today I saw some message he sent to someone about being from about AFF? And I was informed it means "Adult Friend Finder" which is not okay with me..
I'm just so confused. It's like he hated me, and then a few days go by and he's back to wanting my company and cuddling with me. I feel like the girl he messaged, he had some sort of non friend intentions with her, but I don't know for sure. And if AFF is what I think it is, I swear I'll be pissed. But I'm so confused. Why keep me around if he just wants to run around and sleep with people? Im not some companion.. I'm supposed to be his girlfriend.. At least i think or feels like so?
I just don't know what to do. I just want to take his phone and smash it and say, looky there, all problems solved.
I want to ask him if we're together, but I'm scared. And if we are, is there a way to be sure he's not running around behind my back? And if he is, what do I say to get him to stop??
Edit: Also he doesn't say "I love you" anymore. I stopped saying it because I don't know if were together. I thought he stopped because he wanted to build back up to it.
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2019.02.28 05:59 thisiswhereilanded An active alcoholic is by definition a "toxic person"

that was depressing realization i had today: I am in love with a toxic person. My AH and I have been separated for 8 months. He lies, he manipulates (attempts to)...for example, he got angry that I anonymously posted about his alcoholism so he signed up for Adult Friend Finder to piss me off and to "make me think" he cheated so i would send him divorce paperwork. Eh, I sent him the divorce decrees before he signed up for AFF, but whatever. Of course, now he says he cancelled it.
The point is this is how he deals with things...in a toxic, unhealthy way. It's probably why he is an alcoholic. But it doesn't change the fact that at least right now, and for at least several months, he has been a toxic person to me. He wasn't always this way but he is now. So, yeah, I am in love with a toxic person.
The other night he told me that although his parents may hate him at times, they still HAVE to deal with him, unlike me who can walk away. Wow, he certainly takes their support and love for granted.
Bless everyone that, for whatever reasons, has to deal with the toxicity of an active alcoholic.
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2019.02.15 18:57 swinging_yall Adult Friend Finder -- is it worth it?

We're already on Kasidie, which is well worth it, basically its FB for swingers. Saw another couple from Mississippi post recently, they are on Adult Friend Finder, so I'm wondering if it's worth it. I don't want to be on lots of different platforms, but I could add AFF because it seems like a much different format IF it seems like a decent place to find other couples. So, what do y'all think?
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